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Stopping to Smell the … Snow AGAIN

We are all truly sick of the constant barrage of the winter of 2014.  We’ve seen past winters where the cold was so constant it seeped inside our very souls by winter’s end. We’ve seen past winter storms where snow piled high enough to act like quick sand, trapping us in our homes. But I don’t personally remember a winter where both conditions kept pounding and pounding away at us.??????????

Don’t get me wrong. I’d find it hard to live in Sunny Cal where weather rarely challenges its residents. Those of us who live without sun and good fruit part of the year are toughened by our winters. I also will always find the emptying of grocery store shelves that goes along with a Washington, D.C. snow prediction deeply amusing. But by the time this week’s snow hit, it reminded me of how hard this winter has been for other reasons. My mom, my siblings and I are trying to deal with my ailing father. I’ve seen more death among friends, loved ones and their families than I’ve seen in many years. The cold has reached my heart and left it paralyzed just in time for spring.

This latest snowfall in our area was the same as many have been this year: the sky dumped the third-largest amount of snow here ever to fall this late in the season. Temperatures ran at lows all week; news organizations had a field day talking about how depressed everyone is and how road crews can’t keep up.

Determined as I’ve been all season not to let snow keep me or my dog from exercise, I prepared to venture forth—extra warm underclothes, a hoodie sweatshirt under winter down coat, gloves that allow me to maintain a grip on the leash, the dreaded and now well-worn snow boots. My poor dog stands and stares with big sad eyes at this human ritual that delays her walk by ten minutes (which in doggy time is two hours). But we eventually made it out the door and down the walk and onto the already clean sidewalks. About 10 minutes into the walk, I lifted my grumbling head and looked up. And I was wowed.

This particular snow hadn’t stuck long to the paved surfaces and the groundDSCN0120 was ugly with dirty snow piles and mud. But the fluff had clung tightly to every tree branch and bush and flat surface that wasn’t used for traffic, and the resulting scenery was stunning. It literally stopped me in my tracks, made me take a deep breath and feel the beauty of the snowfall.

Life’s challenges have this really annoying habit sometimes of getting in the way of living. Standing on a sidewalk, gazing in wonder at God’s creation is the part of living we forget when we are embroiled in hardship. It moved me so deeply I went back to the house for my camera.

I have to admit that as I snap snap snapped away, I was hoping I was doing it to commemorate the last snowfall of 2014. It is, after all, the first day of spring. But I will remember this week’s snow for a very long time.

Genilee Swope Parente

 
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Posted by on March 20, 2014 in Uncategorized

 

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Creating the characters that turn pages

Now that mom and I are movie stars … well … television stars … well, okay … public access TV show guests, it’s time to move on to other endeavors. Because we’ve been to so many senior living communities holding book signings or introductory speeches, we’re working on a new project. We’re showing people what goes into the creative writing process by staging a couple of fun exercises. Why are we doing this? Because the most frequent questions we get when we talk before a group of people is: how do you come up with your ideas?

Like with all these wonderful book events that mom and I share, we’re learning about each other in the process. I did not know this about my mom, but her ideas for books start with a character. Maybe I should have known, given the fact characters are always running around in her brain, keeping her up at night with their antics, traveling with her to doctor’s appointments to keep her company in the waiting room. But what I didn’t realize is that her characters begin with a name.

So when it came time to put together our first exercise, it was this: Here’s a name. Tell me what you think about this person? The name she created? Elmer Martin.

Before you read this blog further, close your eyes and see what you come up with. What does he look like? What does he do for a living? What kind of a person is he?

We decided to use a planned meeting with the Emeritus book club as our test for the exercise. This enthusiastic group of people heard us tell our story in January, agreed to read Twist of Fate, then had us return in February for a discussion of that book. All of their comments were “spot on.” Or at least we hope so because they called our first book “a-page-turner-and-boy-did-I-love-Danny-and-Sam [a main character and our detective]”. We returned to their fold later in February for a review of Wretched Fate and heard this comment: “a-page-turner-and-boy-did-I-love-Rosie, the-poor-boy … and of course Sam [two main characters and our detective]). Then at the end of the review discussion we asked if they minded trying our Elmer Martin name exercise.

We were pretty shocked with the results. Almost universally they said that Elmer was some sort of farmer by profession—a hard worker who was not a handsome man, but was strong of character and in his looks; that he was a man always on the go with some sort of hands-on project; that he was quietly intelligent, a lonely man, an honorable person. They even described his physical appearance pretty accurately.

Thank you Emeritus!

Thank you Emeritus!

Mom and I just sat there nodding our heads, and then I read a passage from a story mom is creating that began with the name Elmer Martin. It was their turn to be surprised at how much of the character they’d pinpointed.

I don’t know if this exercise proves that people have preconceived notions of certain names or if it just shows how sharp that group of people are. What I personally took away from the exercise is that most readers love to think about their characters. To me that means if you are a writer and you have the ability to create people that take readers out of everyday life and plop them down in that character’s life, you’ve succeeded. You’ve drawn them into the book.

Mom has that ability, and I always look forward to reading a new manuscript because I know I’ll “meet” new people who will become part of my life for a while.

Stay tuned this year and she’ll introduce you to Elmer Martin.

Genilee Swope Parente

 
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Posted by on March 13, 2014 in Uncategorized

 

Come see your movie star friends

Both Mark Swope, Genilee’s brother and Sharon’s son and Spectacle Publishing Media Group have posted links to the video of the television show Conversations with Rich. The show aired last week in the Northern Virginia area.

Here’s Mark’s version. It’s a shorter version:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hNN6oEYpO0A&list=UUh3nHRkelA5vRojc7cuIMGw&feature=c4-overview

And thanks to Eric Staggs, president of Spectacle for posting this longer version:

http://youtu.be/uvlYPMYNTfQ

Genilee Parente

 
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Posted by on March 2, 2014 in Uncategorized

 

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